We need a bit of luck and happiness in our lives.

Dear Bloggers,

One of my best mates is bullied at work, very audible as mature people act like infants. However, it got me to think, why does it give such a mental chant ?
So here are a few tips for the victims, or should I tell them cheer up and start to look at the bright side of life:




1. Luck: What exactly is happiness and how to obtain it?
Luck or should we call it happiness it is like a butterfly, all of sudden it is there and the next moment it was gone.
And that's good because fortunately these are moments that you should remember.
It is not constant, because then you would not sense it anymore.
It is like your norma surrounding. If you are being there every day, you're eyes would not catch the beauty of it anymore.
If you are going there on holiday it is new and you see how beautiful it is.
Luck, has to touch a string in you.

To obtain luck or happiness you have to leave something or to do something and that is precisely the intention of it.
You need to do something for it.
It is also your luck so you know yourself how to obtain it.
Maybe not always consciously, but unconsciously you know.

Happiness or luck is personal, feel inside yourself or go for it, do it or look for it, because most happiness you get trough looking and feeling.
You also need to be a more feeling person from deep within yourself and bring those feelings out.
Everyone has luck within him or herself, but you have to dare to show it to the outside world and dare to believe in yourself that it is there for you.
It is not needed to be big things that make you happy and feel good.
Happiness or luck is an intense love for yourself in a loving environment or situation.
So it is not about the other but about yourself.
Everyone must work for his own happiness, then you will get a confluence of the happiness of each other that radiates an intense love so very happy to be great for everyone.
As a large waterfall that starts small and grows.



2. Intense Living:
The weather here is nice and sunny so naturally we should exchange some ideas on paper.
See that butterfly, he lives an intense and short but he lives as if it was his last day.
He enjoys the sun and even the rain.
For example, you should live like it is your last day.
Not really, but intense, try it, but it will still not be easy.
And of course you do not want to think that it is your last day, but intend to live like it.
Look at people who are seriously ill, as they live there life if it depends on it.(an expression of your own, Old Sailor).




3. Anxiety and satisfaction:
But there are many more important things in your, and my life that are absolutely worth it.
That fear is and that is something we don't have but you do and that is actually a wrong thought or feeling, because you are being influenced by that fear and loose all your energy in it.
That is it, you lose energy with it and you have to get this from somewhere else again and where do you get that from?
So try to be the boss over your fear.
As you get this already during your childhood.
Fear is the greatest enemy of human happiness, it can even be in the way of your happiness if you let fear dominate.
Learn to deal with it in certain situations that require courage of you.
If you are overwhelmed by fear discarding a portion against love and talk to your friends.
You know that helps.
But you must itself begin to overcome.
This is another step to happiness and satisfaction.
Oh, yes, satisfaction, even something.



4. Lessons of life:
Oh dear, life is too good and too interesting to ignore it and let things lie around.
You say: that you onlylive once, that is an expression and life at the moment is of course only once, but you take so much with you to the next lives.
And the next time now on earth or anywhere else, it does not matter.
So see it as little things that you meet in life, and sometimes undergo.
Although it is not always fun, later you are proud of it, that you had to do this and you will see what you have learned out of this.
Life, whether you live your or our lives, and the lessons are very beautiful lessons that is something that you can take from me.



5. Old and enjoy:
Just as you think if someone is 80 that his time is coming soon.
This is a brainwashing.
You people should also not so busy and concerned with your age.
Age is not important.
It is not how long you've lived but how you have lived.
You may become very old but if you are 100, but had no fun in your life, you have reached the 100 but it also makes no sense.
Then you better become 60, but have enjoyed every minute of it.
Enjoy what you have and everything you are experiencing in life and that "you" does not include the stuff that you have, but what you have around you, the overall picture, people, friends, children, the place where you live, the whole, enjoy it. And the small precious moments of intense luck or happiness enjoy it and remember for what you are living.
You live to enjoy, not to be annoyed.
Enjoying makes life so much more precious, fuller and happier but you usually do not make any time free for it, or you normally run very hard past it.



As I wrote last time: And I think what messes us up the most is that we all have this perfect picture of the way things should be.. Well there will never be a perfect picture. The advice from my side is don't let your head hang down and fight this crazy situation as long as you believe in yourself, you will be someone.
So turn your face to the sun and the shadows will fall behind you.

The Old Sailor,

Comments

  1. Heer 'Oude Zeeman',
    Ik heb vroeger vijf jaar lang Engels gehad op school. Veel Amerikaanse films gezien ook. En later bij de Luchtmacht dienst gedaan in Kleine Brogel en daar vaak 'de Amerikaanse bar' bezocht. Ik kan uitstekend gesproken Engels begrijpen, maar spreken gaat na al die jaren wat moeilijker. 't Schijnt dat ge dat moet 'onderhouden'. Lezen gaat ook nog, maar schrijven, daar begin ik niet meer aan.
    Waarom schrijft U in het Engels, als ik vragen mag?
    Met vriendelijke groeten,
    De Drs.

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  2. Geachte heer Happolati,

    In het begin van mijn blog hobby heb ik in het Nederlands geschreven. En ik heb mij in het begin georienteerd op grote bloggers zoals u. Want als je pas nieuw bent in de blogwereld, moet je van een aantal meesters in dit vak, het vak onder de knie krijgen.
    Ik ben hier afgestapt in verband met het feit dat tijdens mijn werk aan boord van een veerboot tussen IJmuiden en Newcastle een aantal collega's zich afvroegen wat ik schreef en wat het inhield. Toen is het besluit gevallen om in de Engelse taal verder te gaan. En ik moet zeggen dat men in het begin ernstig worstelt met woordgrappen en uitdrukkingen, naar mate de tijd verstrijkt is het steeds gemakkelijker geworden. Ik heb dan ook uw verjaardagscadeau blog misbruikt in het begin om te vertalen, wat best moeilijk is omdat sommige woordspelingen niet te vertalen zijn. Dit was geen moeheid maar ik had in den beginne moeite om een verhaal in het Engels te schrijven. Inspiratie is soms lastig en ik schreef dan eerst in het Nederlands en vertaalde dit een dag later in het Engels. Dus is het om ook mijn buitenlandse vrienden te plezieren, doch reageren mag gerust in het Nederlands.(graag zelfs) Live life as long as it is there.

    The Old Sailor,

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  3. Ja, Heer Oude Zeeman,
    Ik zag het. Gij deugniet dat ge zijt! De Nederlandse tekst heb ik reeds gevonden; ik ga nu even op zoek naar die vertaling. Ik wist niet dat U mij al zo lang las.
    Met vriendelijke groeten,
    De Drs.

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  4. Ja, ik zag het, Heer Oude Zeeman. Gij deugniet dat ge zijt! De Nederlandse tekst heb ik al gevonden. Ik ga nu even op zoek naar de vertaling.
    Met vriendelijke groeten,
    De Drs.
    P.S. Ik wist niet dat U mij reeds zo lang volgde en las.

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  5. Geachte Drs. Happolati
    In den beginne was er niets en moet men werken aan de schrijfkunst, ik lees dan ook met veel plezier uw geschreven blogjes (of zeg je met de computer getikte blogjes?)Ik sta dan ook iedere keer weer versteld van het feit dat er weer wat uit mijn hoofd komt al is het af en toe best lastig. Life is a bitch ...
    The Old Sailor.

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